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The Optimal Praise-to-Criticism Ratio in Business 

The Optimal Praise-to-Criticism Ratio in Business 

A few years ago, I sat in on a quarterly review with a high-performing executive team. The CEO, brilliant and driven, opened the meeting by dissecting every missed target and operational gap. For 30 minutes, the tone was critical—laser-focused on what went...
Pain Is a Wise Advisor: Leadership Lessons from Adversity 

Pain Is a Wise Advisor: Leadership Lessons from Adversity 

There’s an old sailor’s proverb: “Anyone can hold the helm when the sea is calm.” But successful leadership is not forged in calm waters. It is tested—and refined—through adversity. Pain, when embraced, is a wise advisor. It strips away illusions, reveals what...
Focus on Three: The Power of Strategic Simplicity 

Focus on Three: The Power of Strategic Simplicity 

A while back, I led a three-day strategic planning session with a leadership team and we concluded with a list of 12 priorities for the upcoming year. The team was enthusiastic, but I posed a critical question: “Can you truly focus on 12 things at...
The Inheritance We Don’t Always See 

The Inheritance We Don’t Always See 

When we hear the word *inheritance*, we often picture family estates, heirlooms, or financial legacies passed down from one generation to the next. But inheritance doesn’t just exist in family trees—it’s also alive and well in the workplace.  In business,...
She Wanted to Write a Cookbook 

She Wanted to Write a Cookbook 

In the 1990s, my mother suffered three strokes in ten years. The last one changed everything. She lost the ability to walk, drive, and perform many of the everyday functions she once took for granted. She lost her independence. She was confined to a wheelchair and had...
What Negativity Bias Steals from Leaders 

What Negativity Bias Steals from Leaders 

Long before boardrooms and balance sheets, our ancestors roamed wild landscapes where survival hinged on one crucial instinct: spotting danger. If a caveman mistook a lion’s growl for the wind, it could cost him his life. So, our brains evolved to prioritize threats...
The Subcompact of Love 

The Subcompact of Love 

While walking the Camino this June, I found I had a lot of time to think. And all sorts of things came to mind during our 150-mile trek.  One was a memory of my time living in Columbus, GA, many years ago. I was working out with a Methodist minister who, in...